A Tip from our Partner P.E.A.C.E of Mind

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Here They Come!

By Kim Estes

Here they come… the holidays, the relatives and the insane schedules! Now is a great time to take a moment BEFORE things get too crazy, to talk to your family about some common sense safety tips.  There will be lots of interaction with family and friends, new experiences and new places. Take time to practice “what if” scenarios with your kids. Taking time to talk safety with your kids will take some of the anxiety out of your holidays!

Safety while shopping:

• Have a designated spot (a sales counter) to meet at if you get separated.

• Have younger kids practice your name and cell phone number

• Remind kids never to leave the store, no matter what!

• Practice identifying “safe grown ups” while you are out (e.g. Safe Mom with kids)

• Older kids should always take a friend when going to the mall

• Kids need to check first with you before going anywhere or accepting gifts

• Never leave children unattended in stores, arcades, or playgrounds

Safety at parties:

• Let your child chose who they wish to show affection to. Do not force them to kiss or hug someone. Kids need to know they have power over their own bodies.

• Check in on kids during large gatherings. Have each adult take 20 minute “shifts” to do a quick walk through the house/yard and check on the kids to make sure that they are doing OK

• Kids should check first with a parent before going off with someone (eg. To play video games in a bedroom or leaving the house to go play)

• If someone is making your child uncomfortable (excessive tickling, hugging, wrestling) intervene on your child’s behalf to end the behavior. Your child needs to know that you will protect them.

Questions? Concerns? Contact us! kim@pomwa.org  We’re here to help! Follow us on Twitter for quick tips!

About the Author: 

Kim Estes is the co-founder of the non-profit organization: P.E.A.C.E of Mind (Parent Education And Child Empowerment) www.pomwa.org . Kim has worked with parents for over 12 years, educating them on various parenting topics.  Kim and her cohort in crime prevention, Sabrina Sessa, help liberate parents from fearful parenting through non fearful techniques and easy to apply parenting strategies they help empower families to be safe.